How do I know my ranking

My Google search console says my average is 24.6 with my most recent ranking being 4.6.

I tried going incognito and doing a search. I can't find my site anywhere. I even went as far as including the entire business name with the keywords, the location, and my name. I see social media links that lead to my site, but not Google.

How does the search console base this position if I can't see my site at all.

I've already verified it's in Google by using site: www.site.com.